Common Female Sex Fantasies

To be able to pleasure your Woman better you need to be able to understand what she really , below is a list of Common Female Sex Fantasies . This module is designed to open your mind to Women’s sexual fantasies. Read through the list, consider whether your feel your partner might have similar desires. If so experiment a little with the ones you can and see how she responds. Open up a conversation with her and ask her if she has a fantasy she would like you to fulfil. It’s important that you make it clear to her that you want to do this for her and not for herself. Let’s take a look at some of the common female sex fantasies.

Common Female Sex Fantasies

Important information

Everything you do to improve your Sex life starts with good Communication. Some of the subjects you will see below will involve having an open minded conversation. Ask your partner to be honest with her desires. Listen to her answers. Desires are natural and can’t be stopped. Never get angry with your partner because of the answers she might give you, listen and embrace them.

Common Female Sex Fantasies

Oral Sex

Don’t get to excited lads this is generally a fantasy of a woman receiving oral sex. It’s been heavily discussed for a while and there is various scientific evidence that giving a woman oral sex is the best way to make her orgasm. We have a whole article dedicated to Female Oral Sex later on.

Sex in Public

Sex in public has an appeal of doing some different. Adding on top the thrill of possibly getting caught in the act can make this a very special experience indeed. Make sure you check with local laws so your not landing yourself in trouble.

Pegging

The one that most Men fear. However, it can be very pleasurable for a man as well as ticking the box for the woman. If you don’t know what pegging is then our simple description would be, the act of Anal sex using a strap on dildo. Remember this is all about keeping an open mind!

Being Dominated

Mainly down to the huge success of the Fifty Shades of Grey Movie Franchise, domination has exploded and is most probably number 1 on a woman’s fantasy list. Some woman like to feel that they have no control, they like to be told how their man is going to pleasure them. Domination aligns very close with Bondage (see below).

Dominating someone

Flipping being dominated on it’s head, a lot of woman also enjoy dominating a man. Although we live in a less sexist minded world these days men generally are seen as the more powerful gender still. Women fantasize about how they can control a man, they like to feel powerful. They also enjoy using their bodies “assets” to tease and seduce a man. When a man can’t resist the temptation it makes a woman feel sexy and very turned on.

Sex in a different place

Not in a Public place like above, but in a different room of the house. Many woman enjoy the thought of being taken on the sofa, or perhaps in the kitchen or Bathroom. Sex is about variety and trying new experiences together. It’s very easy to test the waters with this one by simply taking your partner by surprise in a different location to what you normally would.

Exhibitionism

Exhibitionism is about being nude or performing a sexual act for others to see. Some woman get an andrenaline rush from doing this. Some like the thought of turning other men on with their bodies. It’s actually gaining in popularity particularly with Social media at everyone’s disposal. Twitter has thousands of profiles of Wives and Girlfriends sharing pictures of themselves for the whole world to see. Furthermore thousands of profiles exist for couples sex, showcasing their sexual adventures.

Bondage

It’s all about Fifty shades of Grey again. Bondage is an interesting one but not a surprising one when you look at why. A woman that is tied up has no control over what happens to her (consent for this is very important and you must discuss this before hand) or more importantly has no control or pressure to pleasure her partner. The woman has no choice but to relax and enjoy the experience without having to worry about her partners needs. Part of bondage is about sensory deprivement, by using a blindfold, in theory, the other senses are heightened to make up for it, thus giving new levels of pleasure.

Voyeurism

Think about the opposite of Exhibitionism, if people like being nude or performing acts for others to see, then a group of people who like watching them must exist. This is what Voyeurism is, people who like to watch other people having sex.

Sex with a stranger

This can be a tricky area so tred very carefully. I will start by saying it would take a lot of evidence and persuasion for me to believe that a person exists in this world that has NEVER thought about this Fantasy.  However, if your partner was to come to you and tell you that this is what she wants to do, how would you react? This article isn’t here to tell you what the answer is but merely demonstrate the desire is within all of us.

Dressing up

With Similarities to Role Play, having sex with their man dressed as a different Role than usual can be a massive turn on. Police officer, Fireman, Doctor and many more. The internet is full of cheap costumes for you to experiment with. Talk to your partner and see what she’s into.

Anal Sex

Some women have stated that it’s even better than normal sex. Anal sex gives a different sensation to normal sex but it’s not for everyone. For first timers it’s better to buy a collection of different sized Butt plugs to experiment with and use lots of lube!

Group Sex

Another common fantasy for both sexes. Whether it’s 2 men upwards or even sometimes just an another woman women fantasize about having sex within a group of people. Again this is a subject that you have to be careful how you approach and be open minded to what your partners real desires are.

Role Play

Meet your partner at a bar and pretend you don’t know each other? Act out a Nurse and patient scenario? The list is endless. But by just being someone different for a short time can be really exciting for both involved.

Lesbian Sex

Probably every mans dream is to see their partner participate in some girl on girl action. From a woman’s point of view they simply imagine another woman hitting the spot just right, the way only another woman would know how to do. A lot of woman are very open to the fact that they find other woman attractive more so then men.

Not fulfilling fantasies could be a cause of love sex drive in your partner. You can find out more here What can cause a low sex drive in women.