The complete guide to how to make her Orgasm through Oral sex

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Why is Oral sex important?

It can be hard work to make your partner orgasm with just oral sex alone, but when she goes you will be rewarded with her pleasurable moans like no other orgasm. Women love this type of love making, purely because it’s relaxing and focused purely on them. From your partners point of view you’re giving her amazing pleasure and not asking for anything in return, she simply needs to lay there and enjoy the experience. Oral sex is also found on our list of Common Female Fantasies

So how do you do you perform oral sex in such a way to give her maximum pleasure? How do you do it with out having to replace your tongue afterwards?

Here is the secret. It’s all about what you do before the oral sex

Confused?

One of the biggest issues with giving oral sex to a woman is that by the time there about to climax their partners tongue is numb, their neck is stiff an they can barely take enough breath in to keep them self alive. How frustrating is it knowing your close to her orgasming, but you run out of puff, need to take a break and have to build her up again?

To summarize the above paragraph we like to use a Racing qoute.
“to finish first, you must first finish the Race”

  • Start things slow, gentle kissing for a few minutes on the lips
  • Start to raise her pulse by adding in some tongue
  • Remember to breath with her, be in sync with her breaths in and out. Really pay attention to how she is reacting to you.
  • Move slowly down to her neck with gentle kisses. Add in some ear play and gentle stimulation of the back of the neck with your fingers.
  • Continue to kiss her down her neck and along her shoulders.
  • After a few moments start to rub your hand on her inner thigh whilst still kissing her neck and shoulders.
  • Move on to her breasts, again gentle kissing all around her breasts but not her nipple to begin with.
  • After a few moments of teasing, lightly breath over her now sensitive nipples. Begin to very gently lick the tips of her nipples.
  • Check in with her breathing and again make sure your in sync. If she’s breathing heavy then continue to let her feel your breath over he nipples whilst your gently stimulating them with your tongue.
  • Add some loud kissing to help stimulate her, begin to moisten her nipples with gentle sucks.
  • Spend a good 5 minutes on breast play and then slowly start to kiss and lick down towards her belly button. In particular the region between the breasts and the below button can be very sensitive to touch at this point.
  • Again begin to rub the inside of her thigh (do not touch her vagina)
  • Slowly move down to below her belly button, check in on your breathing and do some strong sensitive breaths over he belly
  • She should be this point be expecting something amazing, so begin to tease by licking and kissing the inside of her thighs. As you swap between the 2 thighs make sure she can feel your breath on her clitoris as your face moves across to the other thigh.
  • She now can’t wait for you to being stimulating her clitoris, but not yet. Keep teasing her thighs, sync your breathing starting moving slowly towards her vagina with your mouth and at the last second dive up to her breasts and start the process again.
  • Remembering again about breathing. Make sure your kisses are nice and loud by this point so she knows your building up to something great.
  • When you find yourself in the thigh region again and comfortable that you have paid enough attention to the rest of her body you can start to stimulate the clitoris. Heavy breathing over the clitoris, with gentle but loud kissing is best to begin with.
  • Just tease for now, lick her vaginal lips up and down and return to gentle stimulation of her clitoris. Repeat till you can see her getting aroused. You should see her body start to move.
  • Now is the time to really focus on the clitoris, stimulate it with your tongue in a circular motion slowly, with a soft to medium firmness.
  • After a good 5 minutes it’s time to bring on the orgasm. Start from the bottom of the clitoris and lick upwards, slowly and gently to begin with and increase the pace as she gets closer. DON’T go to fast, a lick a second is all you need to get her to orgasm.
  • Some woman might need a bit of further help to get them to orgasm. Whilst licking the clit from bottom to top, insert 2 fingers into her vagina and touch her g spot at the same time. This is located 1 to 2 inches with in the vagina on the roof of her vagina towards the belly.

She starts to orgasm then what?

What you do as she orgasms is crucial, most men tend to get faster. However, what women really want  is for you to slow down. The way men orgasm to women is very different, men generally like to up to pace where women orgasm better when slowed down.

It all takes a little practice and some communication with your partner as always. Don’t be afraid to ask for feedback during and after sex, communication will only make your sex life hotter.