Vaginal fisting and how to do it safely

So first things first,  vaginal fisting is not for everyone. Some Men don’t like the idea of inserting their fist in to their partner for fear of hurting them. Some women, feel like running for the hills at the idea of having the act done on them. Interestingly, couples who do have fist play have some very pleasurable results. Many women also state that the act of vaginal fisting gives them the best orgasms with many experts agreeing with the sentiment. With all that in mind it’s important that you discuss the idea with your partner and be open minded. Vaginal Fisting is safe to do providing you follow some basic rules.

***** Please be respectful to your partner, please accept that some woman physically can’t accept a fist. Dont be forceful and communicate at all times. We don’t reccomend anal fisting. But do have an article on Everything you need to know about Anal Sex *****

Step 1 -Vaginal fisting – Prepare your hands

Remove rings and watches. Make sure all your finger nails are trimmed with no sharp edges. Thouroughly wash your hands with warm water and anti bacterial soap. Gloves are advisable. Make sure you partner doesn’t have an allergy to latex gloves if using.

Step 2 – Prepare for things to get messy

You don’t want to get your lovely new bed sheets messy. Women that have the ability to squirt tend to do this most during fisting, so be prepared with some towels and some wet wipes.

Step 3 – order a tonne of lube

So so so important to use lube for fisting. It’s easier for you and for her! Cover your hand and her vagina in lots and lots of lube. Continue to add more during the process.

 

Step 4 – foreplay, foreplay and more foreplay

Don’t dive straight in. Hopefully by now you would have read a fair bit of the content found on this site. The common theme i hope you have noticed is, that taking things slow and being patient is the secret to success for giving her the best pleasure.

Lots of kissing, stroking, compliments and maybe even some oral stimulation of her clitoris will get her vagina relaxed and softened ready to accept your fist better.  Spend atleast 20 minutes doing this activity.

Step 5 -Ask her if she is ready

Only when she gives you permission should you start. Lube everything up and start slow. Rub the lube all round her vagina with 2 fingers, gently insert them inside her and makesure all the walls are covered. Stimulate her for a good 10 mins just with 2 fingers. After 10 mins increase this to 3 fingers. After a further 10 mins, 4 fingers and so on. Dont forget to kiss her, compliment her and pay attention to other parts of her body.

Step 6 – Don’t make a fist just yet

Following the above instructions when you have reached the point of having all 4 fingers and a thumb inside her, you can then begin to think about make a fist. It’s sometimes easier to actually make the fist whilst inside, however it depends on a size! If you can’t do this, withdraw and make your fist. Then start to slowly insert back inside her. Communicate with her and ask her how it feels. Don’t push to soon, keep things nice and slow.

Step 7 – Showtime

Hopefully by this point you have successfully managed to get your fist inside her vagina and shes comfortable with it. Now it’s time to start making her orgasm. Gentle movements are important, most woman like a gentle, slow backwards and forwards motion. Some women prefer a twisting motion, this is often due to your knuckles rubbing against her g -spot. As with most women, this act might not be enough to make her orgasm. Like with the other sexual acts we have shared with you, stimulation of the clitoris will be essential in unlocking her incredible orgasm.